Jay is slender, modest, with an unceasing friendly smile and the Hindu red dot or tilak, which corresponds to the Ajna or third-eye chakra.
Jacksonville’s Indian community reflects the diversity of India itself, recalling Gandhi’s famous statement that being Indian, he was Hindu, but “also a Muslim, a Christian, a Buddhist, and a Jew.”
The Singhs of India’s Restaurant are Sikhs from Punjab, a northern Indian state south of Kashmir and north of Delhi. Jay Patel is a Hindu from Gujarat, near Mumbai (Bombay). At Fifth Element, you can follow up Southern dishes like dosas, sometimes called Indian crepes with Northern Gajar ka Halwa, a sweet grated carrot dessert sautéed in ghee, a clarified butter. Apna Restaurant on Beach Boulevard offers a Muslim “Indian-Pakistani” cuisine that incorporates more meat, including beef, all of which is halal, meaning permissible according to religious dietary law, similar to kosher laws in Judaism.
Jay feels welcome in Jacksonville, attends temple here, and even celebrates the same festive days he did back in India, including Diwali, the autumn festival of lights, and Holi, the spring festival of colors. Holi celebrations are visually unforgettable, as participants cover each other in blue, green, orange, yellow and red powders obtained from springtime flowers and medicinal herbs.
Sandhya Hawaldar came to Jacksonville in 2003 for a tech job and fell in love with the weather and the beaches. Now president of the Indian Cultural Society of Jacksonville, she stresses the sociability of Indian culture and the fact that second generation Indian children know Jacksonville as their place of origin.
“Jacksonville is our home now. We love it as much we do our home in India, and our kids just think of Jacksonville as their only home,” she says.
Most of the Indians who have moved to Jacksonville are well educated, middle class, and upwardly mobile. Having, in addition, strong family and community support networks, they put very little pressure on the public welfare infrastructure. Unlike, say, Syrian war refugees, they have few needs for conservative monochromatic Americans to hold against them. Besides, there are different kinds of conservatism, and unlike rural Oceanway on the Northside, which for decades was Klan-conservative, Baymeadows, with its office parks and gated communities, is corporate-conservative.
Still, Jacksonville’s Indians haven’t been entirely free of Southern racism and xenophobia. When Gurdev Singh’s children were students at Twin Lakes Elementary, other students sometimes pushed them and called them racial slurs.
“When we complained to the principal, she said it happened in the cafeteria and she can’t control the cafeteria,” Singh says.
But even as the proto-fascist rhetoric of right wing politics stirs hate in the hearts of those who feel that America is no longer great because their own racial views have been marginalized, the best cure for anti-otherness has always been getting to know the people you perceive as other.
Jay Patel says, “Indian culture is very diverse. There are a billion people in India in 29 states. The Indian community in Jacksonville, Hindu or Sikh or Muslim, it’s very close, and we are all a part of Jacksonville too.”
Article by Tim Gilmore of Jax Psycho Geo. Tim Gilmore is the author of Devil in the Baptist Church: Bob Gray’s Unholy Trinity (2016), Central Georgia Schizophrenia (2016), The Mad Atlas of Virginia King (2015), Ghost Story / Love Song (2015), In Search of Eartha White (2014), The Ocean Highway at Night (2014), Stalking Ottis Toole: A Southern Gothic (2013), Doors in the Light and the Water: The Life and Collected Work of Empty Boat (2013), This Kind of City: Ghost Stories and Psychological Landscapes (2012) and Ghost Compost: Strange Little Stories, illustrated by Nick Dunkenstein (2013). He is the creator of Jax Psycho Geo (www.jaxpsychogeo.com). His two volumes of poetry are Horoscopes for Goblins: Poems, 2006-2009 and Flights of Crows: Poems, 2002-2006. His audio poetry album Waiting in the Lost Rooms is available at https://eat-magazine.bandcamp.com/album/waiting-in-the-lost-rooms. He teaches at Florida State College at Jacksonville. He is the organizer of the Jax by Jax literary arts festival. www.jaxbyjax.com